How it works

Tell us what's happening. We'll help you understand the pattern.

  1. 01

    Sixteen questions

    Structured questions about communication, conflict, consistency, effort and how you feel inside the relationship. No partner names, no personal details about him.

  2. 02

    Your own words

    Then you tell us what happened — the version you'd tell your closest friend, not the polished one.

  3. 03

    The read

    Your answers are read across seven dimensions, likely patterns are identified, and a written read is prepared for you.

  4. 04

    Your free read

    You see the primary pattern, the cycle if there is one, what to pay attention to, and what it doesn't mean. The full report is a one-time purchase of $5.99.

What Heartwise will never do

  • Diagnose you or your partner, or attach clinical labels to anyone.
  • Claim infidelity, or state as fact anything it cannot see.
  • Tell you to stay or to leave. That decision stays yours.
  • Suggest tactics, tests, or anything designed to manipulate.
  • Treat one bad week as proof of a pattern.

Heartwise is not therapy, counselling or a diagnosis. If you are describing violence, threats or fear for your safety, that comes first — please contact someone you trust or a local support service.

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